The fact that someone gives their word to another does not relinquish them of their responsibilities whether moral/legal etc. If they do not speak out of an infraction then they too are guilty. Thats just a basic concept of the law and society. They are succeptable to the punishemnt just the same.
Giving your word is a weak argument.
And Unfortunately it is not just a game for all.
It shouldnt be "just a Game" to people who have put in position of being a "gatekeeper". It is a responsibility being a ref, a sysop, an admin or any other job.
If leaders in the community keep saying "its only a game" while at the same time holding a position of authority, then perhaps they need to re evaluate thier positions or have thier positions re evaluated for them.
For the new pilots coming in then yes it starts as just a game. For those of us who have been around more than 15 minutes ita multi-community and a multi-family enviornment in which we play a game.
To quote a great USHA philosopher

INTEGRITY!
There's no gray areas here.
This game is about Integrity and honor by teams and individuals at all times!
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More quotes. more evidence that many feel this is not just a game.
I am still mystified at how often and when we use this phrase "its just a game".
Dont do the crime if you cant do the time.
A person can be held criminally liable as an "
accessory after the fact" if she has knowledge that a crime was committed and assists the offender to hinder his apprehension, trial or punishment. You can also be guilty of aiding and abetting a crime if you help another person in committing the crime, with knowledge of the criminal nature of the act they're committing.
Additionally, a person who agrees with another person to commit a crime, after which the other person commits a criminal act to further their agreement, may be guilty of
conspiracy.
But there are principles of criminal liability that apply to people other than the actual perpetrator of a crime. For example, under federal law there is a crime called "
misprision" of a felony, which applies to a person who has actual knowledge of the commission of a felony and doesn't report it to the authorities.
And in the case where an authority does not reveal a crime in which they observed or have knowledge of then they are also subject to "
obstruction of justice"
Thats just to start